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Four Pillar Friday

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Four Pillar Friday

August 15th, 2025 // Adam Bruderly

Your weekly guide to thriving in every aspect of life—Physical, Mental, Spiritual, and Financial Wellness.

This Week’s Quote:
“Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory.” – Dr. Seuss

I was reminded of this riding a mountain roller coaster with my son last week…him yelling go faster echoing in the mountains, the wind in our faces, that mix of excitement and a bit of fear that makes you feel so alive. At some point, that moment will be a memory. But if we’re intentional, those memories can stack into a life we’re proud of.

Here’s how I’ve been thinking about that across the Four Pillars this week:

Physical Wellness

Our ability to create meaningful moments later in life is directly tied to the decisions we make today.

We don’t lose our physical ability just because we get older.  We lose it because of the habits we keep (or don’t keep) over years. Axios recently reported that nearly 60% of U.S. calories now come from ultra-processed foods. Those foods are cheap, convenient, and everywhere, but over time they add up to higher rates of obesity, heart disease, diabetes, and a shorter runway to do the things we love.

If we want to be hiking, running, riding bikes, traveling, and playing with our kids and grandkids decades from now, that work starts now. Real food. Strength training. Cardio that gets your heart rate up. Stretching and mobility work. It’s not about chasing a perfect body, it’s about protecting your ability to say “yes” to the adventures you want later.

Just a few simple ways to start:

  • Live the 80/20 rule—whole, nutrient-dense foods most of the time, enjoy the rest without guilt.
  • Hydrate like it matters—half your body weight in ounces, electrolytes during heat or training.
  • Cut invisible calories—ditch the ultra-processed snacks, sauces, and drinks that quietly pile up.
  • Get your fiber—25–35g/day from veggies, fruits, legumes, and whole grains.
  • Make your plate a rainbow—bright, varied colors signal a mix of nutrients your body craves.

Mental Wellness

The Northwestern “Super-Agers” study is a 25-year look at people in their 80s and 90s with the memory of someone 30 years younger. The surprising part? They don’t all eat the same diet, take the same supplements, or have the same workout routine. The one thing they all have in common: deep social engagement.

The research is clear. Loneliness and isolation is toxic for the brain. It raises cortisol (the stress hormone), damages brain cells, and increases dementia risk. On the flip side, people who stay socially active… family dinners, coffee with friends, volunteering, joining a club keep their minds sharper, longer.

If you want your brain to still feel young decades from now, you can’t just feed it puzzles and podcasts. You need to feed it people.

So grab that coffee with a friend. Have a beer with the group after the long trail race. Take the trip. Find your workout crew. Make time for family dinners, neighborhood chats, or lunch with an old friend. These moments don’t just make life richer now. According to the research they’re a deposit into your future cognitive health.  Relationships aren’t a distraction from longevity; they’re one of its most powerful drivers.

Financial Wellness

AI is going to change work, faster than most of us expect, but it’s not going to replace distinctly human skills. In a recent post from Prof G, he touches on creativity, emotional intelligence, curiosity, connectivity, and problem-solving in complex situations will be the currency of the future. These aren’t just nice-to-have traits; they’re the skills that will make us irreplaceable as workers, leaders, and individuals.

That means we need to shift our thinking. Our careers, our approach to money, and even our businesses should be built to develop, showcase, and deliver these skills. This isn’t only about surviving disruption—it’s about thriving in it.

Financial wellness, then, isn’t just about hitting a savings target. It’s about how we use money to strengthen these future-proof skills in our own lives:

  • Curiosity – Invest in learning, travel, and experiences that challenge how you see the world.
  • Connectivity – Spend in ways that deepen relationships and expand your network of trust.
  • Curation – Be intentional with your time and resources, choosing the opportunities that truly align with your values.

If we see our finances not only as a tool for security, but as a tool for growth and relevance, we can design lives that are resilient, meaningful, and hard to replace—no matter how the world of work shifts.

Spiritual Wellness

Last week I was reminded, in a way I wish I wasn’t, that nothing is guaranteed. We like to believe the sun will come up tomorrow. Most days it does. But one day, it won’t. That’s not meant to be dark…just clarifying.

When we live like time is infinite, we waste it. When we remember it’s not, we treat it differently. Gratitude, reflection, and awe aren’t extras.  They’re fuel for a life that feels whole. They help us slow down, see the beauty in the ordinary, and stay connected to what matters most.

The moments that become our most cherished memories usually aren’t about perfection. They’re about presence. And that’s something we can choose daily.

I’m as guilty as anyone of forgetting this, which is why I keep small reminders everywhere: the memento mori necklace I wear, the clock on my shelf permanently set to 9:03, the family photos throughout our home…my wife and I 20 years ago, the boys as babies, and now on the edge of middle school. These aren’t decorations. They’re items that bring me back. They remind me that life is happening right now, and that the most important work I’ll ever do is to truly show up for it.

Here’s to Living Richly,
The Journey Team & The 9:03