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Lessons from 234,000 Steps
Jun 19, 2023 // Adam Bruderly
After completing some rough calculations, I found that I took approximately 234K steps during my first 100-mile race. However, it wasn’t the finisher’s buckle that left the deepest impact on me. Instead, it was the profoundly personal experience that led me to the starting line. Learning to confront those moments of self-doubt and fear. Wondering if you have the mental fortitude to persevere and tackling that inner voice that throws you into a relentless flywheel of negativity. All of this, combined with the exhaustion of daily runs, strength workouts, and balancing my responsibilities towards kids, career, and family.
Each step I took taught me that the physical and mental boundaries we impose on ourselves are often merely illusions. I learned with the right mindset, motivation, and support, it is possible to push ourselves beyond and limit we set for ourselves. Whether that is taking your first fitness class, picking up a new hobby, or running 100 miles. Although the finish line may appear to be the ultimate goal, it often takes the backseat to the journey itself. This journey, be it in a race or life, frequently offers the most precious insights.
Fueling the Pursuit of a Life Well Lived
From my experience working with wealth management clients, I’ve noticed a common thread among those who find real fulfillment in their financial success. They view money not as the end goal but as a vehicle—a means to pursue what matters most. It’s the foundation that lets them start a foundation, create lasting memories with loved ones, or explore new interests without constraints.
What is Wealth?
According to Investopedia “wealth is measured by taking the value of all the assets of worth owned by a person. This is determined by taking the total market value of all physical and intangible assets owned, then subtracting all debts. Essentially, wealth is the accumulation of scarce resources.”
How Many Summers?
After my first son was born, I began to think about what the next phase of our lives looked like. We went from two busy professionals who could hop on a plane for a weekend trip, grab dinner, or chase endless weekend adventures to first time parents. We were 2,000 miles away from family trying to plan the one or two trips a year that we could see them which led me to ask this question, how many summers do we have left?