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Four Pillar Friday

February 13th, 2025 // Adam Bruderly

“The more I learn, the more I see how much depends on everything else.” — Abraham Lincoln

With President’s Day on Monday, that line has been on my mind—because it’s a simple truth we forget. We try to run life in silos: physical health over here, mental health over there, finances in a separate bucket, and purpose as something we’ll get to later. But the Four Pillars don’t work that way. Your body shapes your mood and energy. Your mind shapes your relationships and decisions. Financial pressure taxes sleep, patience, and presence. And purpose determines whether the hard work feels meaningful or draining. The 9:03 reminder: everything is connected so the goal isn’t perfection in one pillar, it’s alignment across the whole system.

That being said… another Four Pillar Friday.

Physical Wellness

Imagine a pill that could:

  • cut heart disease risk by 60%
  • reduce diabetes by 50%
  • lower colon cancer risk by 50% and breast cancer by 25%
  • reduce depression by 25%
  • cut hip fracture risk by 70%
  • improve sleep for 70% of people
  • reduce poor mental health days by 43%
  • and extend lifespan

Who wouldn’t take it?

The twist: we already have it. And it isn’t a pill. It’s exercise.

Research keeps pointing to the same truth: movement is one of the highest-leverage decisions we can make. It strengthens the body, steadies the mind, improves mood and cognition, and expands what life feels like and not just how long it lasts. It supports all four pillars: Physical capacity, Mental resilience, Spiritual presence, and Financial durability (fewer downstream health costs, more years with options, extends time).

No prescription required. Just the decision to move.

Because the “magic pill” isn’t something you buy. It’s something you do.

Mental Wellness

Nerding out on Science Daily, a study caught my eye that continues to reinforce the importance of the Four Pillars and even more importantly how they are all interconnected.  This one was about how you perhaps spend your mornings, evenings, or perhaps even the middle of the day. Researchers followed a large group of adults for years and found that simply replacing 1 hour a day of TV with something else was linked to a meaningfully lower risk of major depression (11% lower risk of developing major depression overall and the effect was strongest in midlife with a 19% lower risk).

The more TV time people “reallocated” (up to 2 hours), the larger the potential benefit, with the biggest reductions again showing up in middle-aged adults; sports/intentional exercise produced the strongest signal, and even swapping time toward sleep showed benefit. The mental pillar takeaway isn’t “never watch TV.” It’s that your attention is trainable, and your evenings are leverage: one hour reclaimed from passive scrolling/TV and spent on movement, connection, or recovery can meaningfully shift your mental health trajectory over time

Financial Wellness

“My wealth has come from a combination of living in America, some lucky genes, and compound interest.” — Warren Buffett

“The first rule of compounding is to never interrupt it unnecessarily.” — Charlie Munger

“Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. He who understands it, earns it; he who doesn’t, pays it.” —Albert Einstein

Compound interest is the best teacher in finance and maybe the most important teacher in life. In markets, small advantages held long enough become massive; in real life, the same is true of habits, relationships, health, and character. The “Atomic Habits” compounding visual makes the point perfectly: tiny daily choices feel meaningless in the moment, but over time they create two very different lives. One built on 1% better, one built on 1% worse. Time is currency, and the real power isn’t intensity…it’s consistency.

Spiritual Wellness

Awe is one of those rare bridges between the Spiritual and Physical pillars. For many people it comes through nature, music, faith, art—but what’s interesting is it isn’t just a feeling. Research links awe to shifts in stress physiology and pathways tied to inflammation, which means it can be both deeply meaningful and biologically regulating. That’s always made sense to me, because two of my biggest awe moments came while doing very physical things. On Mt. Rainier, we started the summit push around 3am. I stepped out of the tent and looked up: no light pollution, just an impossible sky full of stars. Years later, during my first 100-mile run, I had a similar moment alone in the desert exhausted, quiet, and staring into the same vastness. What struck me wasn’t just the beauty. It was the realization that building physical capacity gives you access to places, experiences, and perspective that reminds you how big life is and how small our daily noise can be. Sometimes the strongest spiritual practice is simply getting strong enough to place yourself where the universe can speak.

And In The End

From all of us at The 9:03 Collective: thanks for reading. Keep showing up. Stay curious. And never forget that the clock is running, so make it count.

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Until next week …

The Journey Team & The 9:03