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Four Pillar Friday

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Four Pillar Friday

July 11th, 2025 // Adam Bruderly

Your weekly guide to thriving in every aspect of life—Physical, Mental, Spiritual, and Financial Wellness.

This Week’s Quote:
“You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore.” — William Faulkner

Physical Wellness

If you’ve read Michael Easter’s The Comfort Crisis, you know there’s real power in leaning into discomfort. That’s exactly what misogi is. A deliberate, edge-of-your-comfort-zone ritual that resets your body and mind.

Think of misogi as a single, intense challenge…a long solo hike, a dawn sauna and cold bath routine, an ultramarathon that forces you off autopilot and into a new space. It’s not mysticism; it’s a practical tool to:

  • Disrupt routine. Shake your body and brain out of their well-worn routines.
  • Build unshakeable confidence. Finish that brutal climb or ice bath, and you’ll carry the memory of “I did that” into every other challenge.
  • Unlock flow under pressure. When the task demands everything you’ve got, you slip into that space where everything connects.
  • Clarify what truly matters. Burning legs or numb toes become badges of honor and proof you’re capable of more.

How to start your own misogi:

  1. Choose your edge. Pick something that scares you but is achievable with preparation.
  2. Set your intention. “I’ll run that half marathon.” “I’ll hold the plunge for two full minutes.”
  3. Honor the ritual. No shortcuts. Show up, give it your all, then close the ritual with gratitude…completion or not.
  4. Debrief. Journal what you learned about limits, breath control, and mindset and carry those lessons forward.

In the spirit of The Comfort Crisis, make misogi part of your Physical Pillar. Every time you step into controlled discomfort, you reinforce your resilience—and remind yourself that growth waits just beyond the edge of comfort.

Mental Wellness

Remember when titles, corner offices, and six-figure salaries were the ultimate badges of honor? I sure do. Early in my career as a credit analyst in a Cleveland bank, I’d camp out in the lobby at 5, 6, sometimes 7 PM, eyes glued to my screen or at a P&L, waiting for a senior portfolio manager or the bank president to stroll by so they’d “catch” me working late. In reality, I was buried in Bill Simmons’ Page 2 columns and ESPN transcripts, hoping that subtle, “Look how dedicated I am, boss!”, would earn me the next title bump or pay raise.

Fast-forward to today, and that is truly beginning to change. A new global EY study of 18–34 year-olds finds that in the U.S., money now ranks only fifth in their success playbook…trailing physical and mental health, personal growth, family ties, and partnerships. It’s no longer about who notices you at your desk; it’s about defining wealth on your own terms. For millennials, success looks like flourishing mentally over stock options, date nights over director’s titles, and authentic connection over 80-hour workweeks. Curious how we navigated from “being seen” to “being well”? Dive into the full story here: Younger Americans Redefine Success.

Financial Wellness

Generosity isn’t just a nice-to-have, it’s a brain hack for lasting happiness. According to an article in Time, prosocial spending lights up our oxytocin and dopamine circuits in ways that outpace buying things for ourselves. Even small gestures, a coffee for a coworker, an extra tip for your barista, deliver more emotional bang-per-buck than splurging on that new gadget. Ready to rewire your happiness starting tomorrow? Try one of these simple acts:

  • Pick up the tab for the person behind you in line or cover coffee for a friend.
  • Tip extra at your favorite coffee shop or round up when the screen asks you for the donation.
  • Send a surprise gift to a friend to lift their day.
  • Donate small ($10–$20) to a cause or a charity that resonates with you.
  • Share your skills by offering to mentor or support someone who could use your expertise.

Each act is a quick, low-effort way to spark that generosity boost—and you’ll feel it, too. Read the full science behind it here: Generosity & Happiness: How Helping Others Helps Your Brain

Spiritual Wellness

Over the past few months, I’ve been swapping out offices for trailheads—walking sessions in our local national park have become a core part of my coaching practice. Clients tell me they leave each trek noticeably lighter: conversations feel more open, clarity sharpens, and they return ready to tackle life’s complexities rather than react to them. Science explains why. “Forest bathing”, the simple act of immersing yourself in nature, has been shown to lower cortisol and blood pressure, boost immunity, and improve attention span. Even 120-minutes a week spent among the trees can enhance mood, heighten mindfulness, and foster a deeper sense of purpose.

That kind of measurable well-being shift isn’t just anecdote. It’s why I’ll keep meeting you on the trail: physical movement plus fresh air becomes a living laboratory for the mental and spiritual pillars of our work together. If you haven’t tried a guided nature walk yet, give it a go this week…even a 20-minute stroll around a park can plant the seed for greater resilience, creativity, and calm.

You don’t need a formal coaching session to tap into this reset…just step outside. This week, carve out 20 minutes: leave your phone behind, wander a nearby park or trail, and really look at the green around you. Notice how your breath slows, your thoughts clear, and you reconnect with what matters.

Let me know what you discover on your walk or better yet, join me on the trail, and we’ll explore those insights together. Until then, here’s to fresh air, clearer thinking, and the simple power of putting one foot in front of the other.

Stay Connected:
What steps—big or small—are you taking in physical, mental, financial, and spiritual wellness? Maybe you pushed your limits in a workout, made a mindful financial choice, or found time for reflection.

We’d love to hear how you’re integrating Physical, Mental, Financial, and Spiritual Wellness into your week. Drop a comment, message us, or tag us—because growth happens when we show up and share the journey. And if this resonates with you, share it with someone who might find it meaningful.

Here’s to Living Richly,
The Journey Team & The 9:03