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The Talk You Shouldn’t Skip with Your Kids
Jun 19, 2023 // Adam Bruderly
As a father of two young boys, I frequently ponder the wide array of conversations that I will be having with them as they mature. Some talks will be simple, such as discussing our favorite Cleveland athletes, while others will inevitably be more challenging, such as addressing the loss of a loved one. Every conversation offers an opportunity to share a bit of wisdom or perspective. However, a crucial conversation that many parents often overlook pertains to financial literacy and wealth.
For instance, a study from the Merrill Center for Family Wealth reveals that two-thirds of families with at least $3 million in investable assets have yet to discuss wealth with their children or never intend to. I have seen these figures over and over for years and each time I encounter them I am startled. It leads me to wonder: would we ever hand over the car keys without driving lessons first? Or put them on a baseball team without first teaching them to swing the bat or catch the ball?
Whether we’re talking about young children or adults, these open and honest discussions about finance are crucial. That is why I strongly advocate for introducing these conversations early in life, to establish a robust groundwork for children and families on their unique financial voyage. A comprehensive plan isn’t just about crunching numbers—it’s about building a solid base of knowledge and encouraging open dialogue.
Fueling the Pursuit of a Life Well Lived
From my experience working with wealth management clients, I’ve noticed a common thread among those who find real fulfillment in their financial success. They view money not as the end goal but as a vehicle—a means to pursue what matters most. It’s the foundation that lets them start a foundation, create lasting memories with loved ones, or explore new interests without constraints.
What is Wealth?
According to Investopedia “wealth is measured by taking the value of all the assets of worth owned by a person. This is determined by taking the total market value of all physical and intangible assets owned, then subtracting all debts. Essentially, wealth is the accumulation of scarce resources.”
How Many Summers?
After my first son was born, I began to think about what the next phase of our lives looked like. We went from two busy professionals who could hop on a plane for a weekend trip, grab dinner, or chase endless weekend adventures to first time parents. We were 2,000 miles away from family trying to plan the one or two trips a year that we could see them which led me to ask this question, how many summers do we have left?